Speaking of their journey, he says: “It gradually became obvious that I could not provide the general level of care that was needed, both physically and psychologically.”
“It was at this stage when the unthinkable entered my head – should I seek professional help, and a caring environment where they understood her condition? This would mean separation. My goodness, did the guilt kick in!”
John visits his wife daily and telephones three times a day. He says:
“All in all, I wish from the bottom of my heart this had never happened. However, I am convinced that the decision to trust all at Zetland Court was the right one. When I leave, I know she will be looked after with love and care.”